personal growth COACH

Darnelle Aynesworth

Reconnect with you…

Underneath every life challenge there is an invitation. When life feels uncertain or heavy, the path forward begins by reconnecting with you. I’m here to hold space as you pause, breathe, and discover the clarity and strength already within.

When life changes, so can you...

When life disrupts what you thought you knew – career shifts, relationships changing, identity evolving  – you’re standing in a doorway. You can either fight to hold onto the old, or use this space to grow into who you’re becoming.

The invitation is not just to “get through it,” but to use it for your growth. In our work together, we slow down, reconnect with your inner compass, and uncover the wisdom that helps you move forward with steadiness and grace.

This is not a space to dwell in the past or bypass what needs to be addressed. My role is to walk beside you through the hard parts so you emerge more fully yourself. 

My Approach

Pause. Breathe. Reconnect. Attune. Attend

Although there are many options out there for quick relief,

I don’t believe in quick and easy fixes to overcome years of conditioning.

I believe in creating a safe, grounded space where real lasting transformation can happen.

Every session follows a simple rhythm — Pause → Breathe → Reconnect → Attune → Attend

Helping you return to yourself in any moment. From there, I draw on the tools that best serve you.

In my coaching, I have adapted personal growth practices and tools that integrate my experience and all I have learned to help those who are ready to step out of their old story and into a new way of being.   I incorporate the wisdom of the Enneagram, the powerful methodology of Hypnotherapy, and integrative healing and coaching practices learned through my studies and professional certifications. Whether you are facing a life transition, relationship difficulties, or seeking personal fulfilment, I provide a holistic and personalized approach tailored to your situation.

The Enneagram as a Map for Growth

The Enneagram is one of the core tools I use in my coaching.

More than a personality system, it provides a clear map for growth. 

Through our work, you’ll discover the patterns that both protect and limit you . You will begin to clearly see how these patterns show up in your life and more importantly, how to move beyond them.

The Enneagram gives us a compassionate framework for:

-Understanding what drives you at a deeper level.

-Recognizing blind spots, fears, and default strategies.

-Unlocking the gifts and strengths that point toward your essential nature and unique potential.

It’s not about labeling or boxing you in. It’s about creating awareness, choice, and freedom
so you can step more fully into who you’re becoming.

Darnelle is a channel of Truth. Her ability to access guidance and bring that to a person in a receivable way is her gift. Working with Darnelle has helped accelerate the growth and transformation I am seeking. With Darnelle by my side I am making continual progress on my path towards living my life purpose. Thank you Darnelle for what you do and how you do it! I’m so very grateful.

Katrina D

Hawaii